Robert,

> What egg and what tomatoes?

I wonder if by chance you have heard of the Landmark Education Forum
http://www.top100expo.com/ListFromTo.asp?from=001&to=020#
(It's on their site somewhere as a top Adventure.)

Or, perhaps, the Foundation for Human Understanding
www.fhu.com (aka, the Advice Line)
(Roy Masters knows his stuff, let me tell you.)

Either of these organizations are very effective at helping individuals take
a much closer look at themselves and understand the source of their
confusions in life. I don't say what I am saying to be rude or insultive
because I will readily inform you that I am involved with both of them
myself. There isn't any particular religious affiliation with either of them
either.

All the best. If you are into this kind of stuff, you'll thank me.

Regards,
Jason Wharton
CPS - Mesa AZ
http://www.ibobjects.com