> I have customized dialogs throughout my app, and setting a
> TIB_Query's ConfirmDeletePrompt causes a standard windows dialog to
> appear.
>
> Insetad I use the BeforeDelete event to ask the user, using one of
> my own forms, but doing this prevents the relevant fields to go red
> as they used to.
>
> Is there any way I can tap into either getting IBO to use my form's
> for these messages, or a way to induce the same ColorScheme?

I believe you should be able to provide your own delete dialog. Please
examine (trace) the sources and you should see how this can be done.

Jason